Chris
There are many many ways to locate that "first deal" ranging from driving neighborhoods, to posting online ads, to direct mail marketing with letters and postcards, to networking with the group and then also joining other wholesalers buyers list such as mine at TradeCash4Houses.com. As for IRA companies, I have been using Equity Trust for 12+ years and highly recommend them but many people also like Quest IRA as well.
Call or email if I can help.
Tim
housebuyer@IBuyNorthTexasHomes.com
817-599-8058